Cash Savings, Florida, Positivity, Retirement, Retirement Journey

Plans are changing. A retirement update.

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In a past blog post, I listed how we planned on retiring in 2023, even with inflation looming. If you missed it and want to know how we thought we were going to do it, you can read it here.

Fast forward 2 short months. A lot has changed, and most of the changes have been out of our control.

  1. Our retirement nest egg: i.e. the stock market.

Since January 1st, we have lost 15% of our retirement portfolio. The stock market has gone up and down so much it rivals the Yukon Striker! For all intents and purposes, that loss equates to three years of living expenses. Because my husband is so ‘young’, we wouldn’t be able to access social security for at least seven years, so our portfolio and personal savings is what we had hoped to draw from when we retired.

2. Selling our home and moving. Our original plan was to sell our home and buy another, smaller home without a mortgage. Since we still have a small mortgage on our current home, this would allow us to be not only mortgage-free but give us some extra cash. Our home’s value has gone up 17%, but we believe finding another home would be difficult. Real estate values have exploded, and homes are going very fast BUT for way more money than they are worth. I refuse to play that game. 2006 – 2009 was not that long ago. 😉 Florida was once on our possible relocation list, but the overpriced real estate and the problems with homeowner’s insurance are making us rethink this possibility. At least for now.

3. Cash Savings. This is one thing that is in our control. My husband is still working, and will continue to do so if the market continues to be a bear. In the meantime, we are on schedule to put a year’s worth of expenses away by the end of the year. If we decide another year of work is necessary, we will continue to put cash away as well as pay off our mortgage in full.

Sometimes unforeseen circumstances require a change of plans. We are adapting to these changes – even though they may require a change in our retirement date. However, we still believe our retirement is right around the corner, and are looking forward to a new adventure.

If you are retired, or are planning on being retired in the near future, how has the present financial environment changed your plans?

Goal Setting, No Buy/Low Buy, Positivity, Retirement Journey

A new perspective and a new direction.

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It’s been a hot minute since I’ve posted here. There has been a lot going on in my personal life, and I’ve had to deal with some hard issues. I’ve also had some time to contemplate the financial direction I want to proceed with for the remainder of 2022. And the No/Low Year Challenge no longer fits into my goals.

Let me explain.

The main goal I’ve had for this challenge was to be able to put together enough cash reserves to pay for all of 2023’s expenses so that my husband had the choice to retire in one year. We have more than enough in our retirement accounts to retire now, however, my husband wanted more cash reserves not associated with the market. I agreed. We are now on track to meet this goal by June 1st.

Another reason was that the No/Low Buy Yearly Challenge started to feel like punishment. When I wrote the post about our upcoming cruise vacation, it felt a bit disingenuine. We took that 7-day cruise and it was a beautiful week. We ended up switching to a nicer hotel (pre-cruise). Although there was no free breakfast or happy hour offered, we avoided the college students on Spring Break. Priceless. We decided to book an excursion and enjoyed a catamaran/snorkeling adventure in St. Maarten. We played slots in the casino. We won and we lost but had fun playing. We tipped generously. We did everything we wanted to, and we figure we paid an extra $250 – $500 without feeling like we missed out. We had the money in our travel account, so why not enjoy?

So what does this mean for my blog? I will continue to track my expenses, but there will be no restrictions on what I purchase. And for those that were interested in the updates, they will most likely be monthly instead of weekly.

I will continue to make this about our future retirement and how we will be preparing, but it won’t be solely about saving money. There are so many things to prepare for retirement, including where we will live, what we will do in retirement, healthcare, etc. Because there is definitely more to life than money.

I thought I would share a YouTube channel that I came across a while ago. Susan is a single woman in her 60’s, and her beautiful spirit inspires me. With so much garbage on the internet, I thought this might bring a little inspiration your way too. Enjoy.

Fear, Gratitude, Positivity

5 Ways to Move Past Fears and Live Joyfully. Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to ... - Marie Curie quotes fridge magnet, White: Home & Kitchen

The past 18 months have been hard.  Most of us (including myself) have experienced some sort of loss.  Fear and anxiety are at an all-time high, and for some, it is downright debilitating.   It doesn’t help that we continue to be bombarded with nonstop fear-mongering news.  From the continuation of the pandemic to possible food and gas shortages; from natural disasters to conflicts over health choices and politics.   It’s enough to make all of us crawl back in bed and not come out until this mess has all been figured out.

Well, as much as I love my bed, I know that is an unrealistic choice.

FEAR can be debilitating if left to its own devices.  Just to be clear, I’m not talking about the fear that is associated with being chased by a bear. I’m talking about the fear of what could happen.  It can cause havoc to your mental, physical and emotional well-being.  I know because I felt it. It paralyzed me for a period of time. Thankfully, I was able to pull out of it by following a few simple steps.  If you are feeling the fear of ‘what if’, perhaps these steps will help you too.

5 Simple ways to move past your ‘what if’ fear and live joyfully again.

  1. Stay off the news. I’m not saying ignorance is bliss because it’s not.  Find a fact-only site and research for yourself what is going on.  More than likely it’s not as bad as you think.  Critical thinking is a very important skill to have when it comes to interpreting what you are reading.   Don’t let some fear-mongering hack who is trying to make money get you sucked in.  You are smart.  Research for yourself.  If you understand, you can eliminate most of the fear associated with it.  (Speaking of researching, if you are looking for information on the pandemic, vaccines, etc. may I suggest Dr. Zubin Damania.  I trust him for so.many.reasons, and you may like him too.  He can be found here.)
  2. Stay off social media.  Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.  These platforms are huge time sucks.  Your time could be better spent reading books, cooking delicious meals, finishing a project, or just about anything else.  I do not use Twitter or Facebook and have taken Instagram off of my phone.  So much more peaceful. 🙂
  3. Take a walk.  Nature has a way of making everything right with the world.  There isn’t a tree, mountain, lake, or flower that I don’t like.  I walk 3-5 miles every day, listening to uplifting podcasts and observing the changing of the seasons.  It centers me for the day, and it doesn’t hurt that I get a dose of Vitamin D to boot.
  4. Take POSITIVE action. I realized I couldn’t control what was happening in the world, but I could take care of myself.   And I did.  I started taking vitamins, eating better, and exercising.  I read everything there was to know about immunities and vaccines and I made sure I was vaccinated (Flu, Covid, and Shingles).  I also made sure I had my annual mammogram and physical.  Most importantly, I made sure my mind was protected.  (See Nos. 1 & 2 above).  Doing things that I could control helped me tremendously.
  5. GRATITUDE! – Yes, you knew this was going to be on the list, right?  I saved the best for last.  I truly believe instituting daily gratitude has changed my world.  I’ve been turning things that could be construed as disappointing or heartbreaking into something to be grateful for.  For example, when our trips got canceled last year, I wrote:  I am grateful for having the extra money to pay down our mortgage so my husband can retire sooner.  When my brother-in-law passed away suddenly, I wrote: I am grateful for the chance to have reconnected with him before he was taken from us.  I’m grateful he is at peace after being sick for so long.  (That one was hard, but in some strange way it helped.)

I try to live each day with positivity and joy.  I visit with friends and family, plan trips, outings, and things I’ve always enjoyed doing.  I’m no longer paralyzed with ‘what if’ fear.  I know that things can change on a dime, and I can’t say that I’ll never grow fearful again. But I now know how to pivot and take positive actions.  And, of course, to always find a way to be grateful.

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.”



Living for TODAY, Positivity

Positivity. A necessity in today’s times.


Before I continue to post on this site, I wanted to let you know the direction in which I would like to take this blog (hence the name change).  My personal goal is to make every post on this blog positive.  Not a negative word will be spoken here.

You see, positivity works in all aspects of your life, leading you to find joy even in the direst of circumstances.  This is especially true in how you manage your money.  I hope to inspire you to live your best life, no matter what your bank account is saying at the moment.

Your comments are important to me as well. Constructive criticism, done in a helpful way, will always be encouraged.  However, any negative comment will be deleted.  I need to protect my mind as well. 😉

Welcome to Positive Finance.




Cruising, Gratitude, Pandemic, Positivity

What to do instead of travel. Cruise travel, that is.

Getting cabin fever?  Tired of this never-ending pandemic?  Yep.  Me too.  I was so excited in May when I thought it was all behind us.  In fact, I was so excited, I booked five cruises.  Of course, they are spread out over three years, but I was able to lock into rock bottom prices. My husband and I love this way of travel.  We miss it and were very excited to get back to it.

One of our cruises was scheduled to take place this November, celebrating my 60th birthday.  I even got the t-shirt.

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The final payment was due at the beginning of this month, but after careful consideration I canceled.  The cruise line protocols were more than I wanted to endure — masking, testing, and possible quarantining if contact tracing led to a case on board.  Not my idea of fun.

After canceling I sat down to think about how we could entertain ourselves this Fall that mimic some of the fun things we do on cruises.  Here’s what I came up with:

  • Hiking new trails in our area.  Exploring new places is what we loved to do at ports of call. Bonus: we can take the dog.
  • Movies under the stars.  Our county offers several places to do this.  We would bring our favorite snacks and drinks.  We loved doing this on a cruise ship.
  • Go to a winery and enjoy dessert wine tastings paired with chocolate. Most wineries in our area offer this outside.
  • Hosting a casino night.  We aren’t huge gamblers but do like a good poker game. We could invite a few friends over.  No need for money to change hands.  Chips can be exchanged for chocolate. (Sensing a theme here?)
  • Trying out a new restaurant.  We always love trying out specialty dining on a cruise ship. It is a fun way to add a new culinary experience. There are plenty of restaurants in our area we have not yet tried, and this would be fun to pick one.
  • Driving to a beach.  Can’t have a cruiselike experience without the ocean.  Luckily we are less than three hours away from Virginia Beach.  A day at the beach, lounging in the sun, reading a book, listening to the ocean, and eating seafood.  Sounds almost perfect.
  • Spending uninterrupted time with my husband.  This may be the best part of cruising for me.  We aren’t distracted with work, family, or chores. It’s AHHHMAZING. Still trying to figure out how to replicate this one.

All of these ideas don’t really come close to a true cruise experience, but they will help divert my attention from the reality of a prolonged pandemic to some fun adventures this Fall.

Of course, let’s not forget all the fun “Fall” stuff, unrelated to cruising, we can do as well.  Sounds like another blog post coming in September!

Has anyone cruised or is cruising this year? Please share!